Từ vựng, mẫu câu hỏi và trả lời hay nhất cho chủ đề tranh cãi (Conflict) trong gia đình

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Have you ever witnessed conflict between daughters-in-law and her mother-in-law?

● Yes! Look no further than my mother and my paternal grandmother! They can't always get on well with each other whenever we have a gathering!

● I’ve never witnessed such conflict in real life but I do understand this conflict through a well-known TV series called “How it is to live with a grandmother”.

What are often the causes of the conflict between daughters-in-law and her mother-in-law?

● That’s because “Blood is thicker than water”! The daughter-in-law is not really the own child of her mother-in-law so they have little reasons to love each other!

● Many girls get used to not having to handle the household chores at their own home, which might cause her mother-in-law to go mental after they live under the same roof!

Who is often the first person to stir up trouble?

● I think the mother-in-law is usually the first to stir up trouble because she tends to feel discontented with her daughter-in-law in many aspects!

● The daughter-in-law might be the first because she often fails to behave with good manners and dignity when they live with her husband’s family!

Is that person completely to blame for the conflict?

● Exactly no! We might have to look at the daughter-in-law’s shortcomings as well! Many girls don’t try to get rid of their bad habits even after they get married!

● I don’t think so! Because many mothers-in-law are really cruel and malicious as they try to find faults with their daughters-in-law at every opportunity!

What happens when they two come into conflict?

● I think one popular sign of this conflict is that the two people make every attempt to say bad things behind each other’s back with their close friends!

● I can imagine the scene in which the mother-in-law criticizes her daughter-in-law and in revenge, the daughter-in-law tries to behave as disobediently as she can day after day!

How can this conflict badly affect the whole family?

● It hits us right in the eye that this domestic conflict might sour the family’s atmosphere and cause the members to feel really tense!

● This conflict adversely influenced everyone’s feelings and caused us to feel stressed and tense in our own family!

Is this conflict completely unavoidable?

● Yes! It’s the conflict that appears in many generations and I think it’s out of the question to reconcile the conflicting views of mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law.

● No! As long as the daughter-in-law can show greater tolerance towards her mother-in-law’s traits, they can certainly live in peace!

Are there any ways to resolve this conflict?

● The couple should consider moving out to live in their own house to end this conflict!

● Mothers-in-law should also gain empathy for their daughters-in-law who have to leave her house and her parents to move into a strange place so that conflict can be avoided!